The Happy Kitchen: Rachel Kelly Campaigns for Mental Health

Woman in red shirt in front of pink wall, Rachel Kelly writer and mental health campaigner
Above: Writer and mental health campaigner, Rachel Kelly.

Writer and mental health campaigner Rachel Kelly is on a mission to teach the world about how the food you eat can affect your mood.  Learning from her personal experience with depression — she suffered two major life-defining, depressive episodes in her early thirties —and her subsequent journey to recovery, the former Times journalist, wife and mother of 5 children, has written 3 books describing her personal experiences with mental illness and the toolkit of strategies she developed to regain control of her mental health.

Rachel’s most recent book The Happy Kitchen is the culmination of her work with nutritional therapist Alice Mackintosh. The pair worked 5 years together to develop recipes that boost energy, relieve low mood, ease an anxious mind, support hormone balance and aid in sound sleep. Working with the evidence from one hundred and fifty research studies, the recipes are delicious, easy to follow and they work.  How do we know? The Happy Kitchen has been in our house for six months and in that time, the recipes have become an integral part of our meal planning.

We recently caught up with Rachel in her happy kitchen to discuss how her concerns for mental health drive her passion for nutrition and its power to heal mental illness.

N.B.: Be sure to check out Rachel and Alice’s delicious Dark Chocolate Brazil Nut Brownies recipe — the ultimate comfort food to improve your mood.

Open shelving in kitchen with pink cupboards
Above: “My kitchen used to be grey,and then one day I decided to paint it pink,” Rachel says. “It’s a much happier colour.”

Fabulous Fabsters: Staying strong and well in body and mind is critical to your well being. Please explain.
Rachel Kelly: It’s interesting. I used to think of the mind and body as separate entities. And then I had this light bulb moment when I realised that not only were the two connected but that their connection was indissoluble. More and more people are beginning to understand this and it’s changing the way we view mental health. People are now looking at whole body systems comprehensively. For example one potential explanation for poor mental health is that low levels of chronic inflammation throughout the body can affect both the mind and the stomach. So this indissoluble connection is a very exciting concept.

If you’re feeling low, it’s all very well to say “snap out of it”. But sometimes you just can’t just change your negative thoughts. You can however change what’s going on with your body and if you approach the low mood physically, you can have a direct affect on your mental state. If you can learn to be more physically relaxed, you’re automatically mentally relaxed. And vice versa. If you’re mentally tense, you’re physically tense. This insight underlies a lot of the strategies that I have developed for myself to cope with mental illness.

Artwork for Golden Rules for a Happy Kitchen, by Christine Chang Hanway
Above: “Following the Golden Rules I set up with Alice and the recipes from The Happy Kitchen along with my other well-established strategies have enabled me to regain the peace of mind that my illness once stripped away,” Rachel says. Artwork by Christine Chang Hanway.

FF: What are the tools in your toolkit?
RK: There are two types, psychological and physical. Psychological approaches include therapy, meditation, poetry and gratitude exercises. Learning to think in a grateful way has been very helpful.

And with physical approaches, I think I first started with breathing exercises. One of the big characteristics of worrying and anxiety is that essentially you’re not in the moment. You’re either worried about the future or the past; you’re not here and you’re certainly not focused on the present. But if you think about breathing while you inhale and exhale, you can’t really breathe in the future or the past. So learning a few breathing exercises is would be a good place to start.

Exercise is another important physical strategy. What’s most interesting here is just how many bodily processes exercise affects. We all know about the endorphin high but in fact, exercise affects many more systems in your body —the endocrine system, the digestive system, the muscular skeletal system — it affects us in so many positive ways.

And then of course, there’s nutrition!

Covers of Black Rainbow and Walking on Sunshine
Above L & R: In her two previous books Black Rainbow and Walking On Sunshine, Rachel shares the coping mechanisms she developed to regain control of her own mental health.

FF: Why do you feel it’s important to have nutrition in your toolkit?

RK: Because food is the one tool where you can have an enormous amount of control. In one day, you have about 7-8 chances to make a good decision. With all of these strategies, there is the potential to fall off the bandwagon — fail to show up at an exercise class or not do your breathing exercises, for instance. The thing about nutritional interventions is that you have to eat — that’s a constant. Even if you have 5 croissants for breakfast, another chance to made a good decision is not far away. You can have a really good lunch and get back on track.

Refridgerator with fruits and vegetables
Above:A well stocked larder and pantry makes it easier to eat well.

So that’s the first reason why nutrition has become so big in my life. The second reason is that the kind of changes you can see with nutritional interventions are incredibly quick. And by interventions, I mean cutting out the CRAP — Carbonated drinks, Refined sugars, Aspartame and additives and Processed meats and foods — while taking Omega 3 supplements and increasing your intake of probiotics and prebiotics to improve your digestive health. There is really good compelling evidence about the benefits of oily fish and healthy fats.

It makes sense because our brains are sixty percent fat. If you cut the CRAP, you can begin to see changes in one day and within 4-6 days of changing the microbiomes of your digestive health, you can see even more improvements. It’s very exciting when you can make a difference so quickly. The best antidepressants can take up to 2 weeks to start working.  I think that nutrition is going to be very big in the future.

Cover of The Happy Kitchen, Alice Mackintosh and Rachel Kelly, Photo by Laura Edwards
Above L: The cover of Rachel Kelly’s The Happy Kitchen, co-written with nutritional therapist Alice Mackintosh. Above R: Rachel and Alice test some recipes. Photography by Laura Edwards.

FF: How does The Happy Kitchen differ from other healthy eating books?

RK: In my journey to get better, I discovered that nutrition could have a positive effect on my mental health and I wanted to know more. The big motivation for writing The Happy Kitchen was that I couldn’t find a book which connected food to mood.

I started working with nutritional therapist Alice Mackintosh 5 years ago and this book reflects the journey I went on with her. She started with my energy first and we moved onto addressing low moods, anxiety, hormones, and sleep. Every recipe we developed in The Happy Kitchen is symptom led, focused on precise intentions and backed up by research from one hundred and fifty studies. We are careful not to over promise on the idea that nutrition will fix everything and are very honest about what nutrition can deliver based on the research that is out there now. At the moment, there aren’t enough long-term studies. But then again there aren’t that many long term studies on the medication used to treat mental illness either. A lot of the medications are quite new actually, and I think that in the future, we will look back at this time and think “gosh we were just at the foothills.”

Toddler with straw hat, bowl of red cabbage sauerkraut from The Happy Kitchen, photograph by Laura Edwards
Above L: Rachel as a toddler. Above R: Gut-loving Sauerkraut made from red cabbage. Photography by Laura Edwards

FF: Tell us about the mental health charities you work with? What do you do?
RK: I am an ambassador for Sane, Rethink Mental Illness, Young Minds and vice-president of United Response. I also volunteer at our local prison in Wormwood Scrubs although I don’t do nutrition with them because I can’t affect their diet. In my journey to regaining my mental health, I have been fortunate to be able to work with nutritionists, psychiatrists, therapists, scientists, and psychologists. And now I want to share what I have learned and work to reduce the stigma and improve the treatment for those suffering from mental illnesses and I do this through running workshops alongside the various mental health charities. I see myself as a conduit to some of this new information about what can make a difference and making the new studies accessible. Good mood food is a huge and growing field.

Pink and black diagram about Mental Health
Above: With depression as the leading cause of ill health and disability around the world, can we afford to spend this little on mental health research? Diagram via Transforming Mental Health Through Research.

FF: Why is campaigning for mental health so important to you?

According to the World Health Organisation, depression is the leading cause of ill health and disability in the world. It’s overtaken lower respiratory disease as the biggest global health problem with over 300 million people worldwide having a diagnosis of depression, an increase of 18 percent between 2006 – 2015. And according to Transforming Mental Health Through Research, mental health research receives 5.8% of the total UK health research spend. This problem is not going away and carries a huge human and social cost. I campaign to raise awareness of this critical issue.

Pink door in Notting Hill
Above: Rachel’s pink front door. “I see myself as a conduit to some of this new information about what can make a difference and making the new studies accessible. It’s time to open the doors.”

FF: What is your key message to anyone suffering from mental health?
RK: Mental health is an illness like anything else and there is no shame in it. It is complicated and nuanced and we are all different. I do think thought that some of the interventions are quite simple and most importantly, you can do them yourself. My key message is this idea that you can take some charge of your own mental health.

And why not? This has got to be our future. We got lulled into the sense that pills were going to sort us all out and it’s now time to be proactive and take responsibility for our own health. And just like our physical health, there are proactive steps we can take for our mental health.

FF: Does your toolkit exclude medication?

RK: I am not saying that I am against medication. Interestingly studies are now showing that medication works more effectively when taken in conjunction with practising these other interventions. And some psychiatrists are now explaining this to their patients when they prescribe them medication.

The problem with medication that is you are dependent on it and someone else to prescribe it for you.  For instance, you can’t change your medication without getting an appointment. That’s quite difficult to manage with the long waits at the NHS. Equally with therapy, you have to rely on going to see someone. The less control you have, the more overwhelmed you can feel.

Steak Salad from The Happy Kitchen, photograph by Laura Edwards, school girl photo
Above L: The Steak Iron-Rich Salad from The Happy Kitchen follows the Golden Rules by using a variety of ingredients. Above R: Rachel in her school days. Photography by Laura Edwards

FF: Any messages to your younger self?
RK: I feel that this post-intense raising a family period can be very positive for us. I’m having the time of my life. I have never felt calmer or happier or able to be creative. And I see it around in many of my girlfriends. I think people feel very negatively about menopause but actually it can be an amazing time.

It’s important to realise that it’s not all over in your fifties. This can affect how you play your twenties, thirties and forties. Don’t be in such a rush to race ahead with your career. Enjoy the other things in your life like raising your children. You will have more chances later — I wish someone had said this to me.

Happy Kitchen brownies and chicken pie, photography by Laura Edwards
Above: Dark Chocolate Brazil Nut Brownies are a favourite comfort food in Rachel’s household. See recipe below. Above R: The Happy Kitchen’s Chicken Pie with sweet potatoes. Photography by Laura Edwards

We spent ages perfecting these, ensuring that they were soft, rich and gooey in the centre. Though they are still a treat, you have more control over the ingredients as you are making them yourself. Spelt flour is wholegrain, meaning that it won’t lead to a sugar spike as white flour does, and Brazil nuts contain selenium which, as we have seen, plays an important role in the immune system. Cacao is a rich source of magnesium and antioxidants.

Makes about 15 squares

10 Brazil nuts
125g dark chocolate (ideally 100% cocoa, or use 85%)
100ml almond milk
150g coconut oil, plus extra for greasing the tin
250ml maple syrup
Seeds from vanilla pod or 1 tablespoon vanilla extract
50g raw cacao powder, sieved
3 eggs
130g spelt flour
1 teaspoon baking powder

1.Preheat the oven to 190C. Grease a 30cm x 20cm brownie tin and line it with baking parchment. Leave the paper sticking up at the sides to make it easier to lift the brownies out when they are cooked.
2. Roast the Brazil nuts in the oven for 15 minutes, turning them once halfway through. They should be slightly browned. Leave them to cool, and then chop them up coarsely.
3. Put the chocolate, almond milk, coconut oil, maple syrup
and vanilla seeds or extract in a saucepan over a very gentle heat, stirring regularly, until everything has melted and you havea rich, glossy-looking batter.
4. Remove the pan from the heat and whisk in the cacao powder.
5. Allow the mixture to cool for 10-15 minutes, and then beat in the eggs. Add the flour, baking powder and chopped Brazil nuts.
6. Pour the mixture into the prepared tin and bake it in the oven for about 12 minutes. Insert a cocktail stick and it should come out with a little chocolate residue. If you like your brownies less gooey, put the tin back in the oven for a further 3-5minutes but take it out before the top starts to crack, otherwise the consistency will be more like cake.
7. Remove the tin from the oven and use the baking paper to help you slide the whole brownie on to a cooling rack. Cut it into squares once it has cooled completely.

A Fabulous Fabster thank you to Rachel Kelly!


4 responses to “The Happy Kitchen: Rachel Kelly Campaigns for Mental Health”

  1. What an uplifting piece!
    Wonderfully designed and presented (I especially like Christine’s interpretation of the Golden Rules). Encouraging that nutritional intervention can make a difference so quickly.

  2. Wonderful… looking forward to purchasing
    Your book … i’m Very much into nutrition
    And mental health … Food is medicine ❤️

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